Why Inclusion Can’t Exist Without Psychological Safety
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In 2019 (before the world went topsy turvy), I flew to London to attend the prestigious Thinkers50 gala. Completely unexpectedly, I had...
- Aug 24, 2022
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You call it nepotism, I call it bias. Here’s how to deal.
I’m familiar with going above and beyond at work: taking on extra assignments; picking up the slack for sick co-workers; even doing some...
- Aug 16, 2022
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The Great “Culture Fit” Lie
Hiring for “culture fit” is among the most widespread and exclusionary practices in hiring today. And it is pervasive! One study found...
- Aug 9, 2022
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Women Don’t Need to Lean In. Leaders Do.
The advice for women to “lean in” never resonated with me. I was always an ambitious, confident person, in my eyes. I was proud of my...
- Aug 2, 2022
- 2 min
Why Brené Brown Loves My Bridge Framework (!)
If I could boil down the answer to why we are so terrible at being as inclusive as we think we are, it would be one word. Discomfort. We...
- Jul 26, 2022
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Why aren’t there more Asian women leaders?
Have you ever been expected to act grateful for having a job – even if the toxic workplace treats you like a stereotype? I have! When I...
- Jul 20, 2022
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5 Red Flags Your Company’s Hiring Process Isn’t Inclusive
Job seekers today are actively looking for clues that a company’s culture will be inclusive. I recently shared the story of Hilliary...
- Jul 13, 2022
- 4 min
Inclusive Leadership in an America that’s Less Free for Everyone
“I want to paint my nails blue,” my son said to me a few months ago. When I protested (more to do with my concerns about the toxicity of...
- Jul 5, 2022
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Take a pay cut for a job that doesn’t break your soul?
Hilliary Turnipseed’s new job pays $30,000 less than in her last job. And she couldn’t be happier. Hilliary could do a lot with an extra...
- Jun 28, 2022
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Empathy Is More Than a Buzzword
Workplace empathy is getting trendy. What I mean is: building empathy is a nonnegotiable component of inclusion. But empathy is one of...
- Jun 14, 2022
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Why I want to eradicate “cultural competency”
Only a quarter of white Americans have a friend of color. And for most, their first meaningful interaction with someone of a different...
- Jun 7, 2022
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How My Baby Niece Gave Me the Strength To Carry On
It’s amazing — but also clearly a lesson I need to keep learning again — how different I feel after I rest. I was lucky enough to have...
- May 31, 2022
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Stories like this are *exactly* why I wrote my book
I grew up subscribing to the ideals of meritocracy. I was born in Singapore, a tiny island-city-state founded on the principle that if...
- May 25, 2022
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When We Underpay People, We Don’t Believe They’ll Succeed
I’m often expected to be grateful for what I’m offered. I also risk facing harsher penalties if I try to negotiate a raise or salary...
- May 10, 2022
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30 publishers rejected my book.
My book Inclusion On Purpose was rejected by 30 publishers. And all it takes is ONE good yes. ONE good yes later, and Inclusion on...
- May 3, 2022
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Why Women of Color Don’t Need (more) Training Programs
Tell me if this sounds familiar: “I’m so supportive of what you’re doing. I’d love to have you join a training program we recently...
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